Looking for something real...

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I smile....a lot. I laugh....a lot. Why? Because life is too short not to!!!



I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~



Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)



I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.



My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.



The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me



PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Green

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Belly Button Ring, Inked All Over, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Part-time

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

It changes daily LOL

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Shy

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Cooking, Dining, Exercising, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Sports, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Lunch and a bike ride? A walk....definitely something where we can actually sit and talk and see if we click. No movies or anything that takes away from getting to know each other better and see if the spark is there.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Not enough room for my bucket list lol. Hey something to talk about on that first date hmmmm

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Obscure, Goofy

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Very Conservative

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Electronic, Gospel, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul, Vacuum Cleaner Noises

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Political, Religious, Sports

My Idea Of Fun Is

Being outside - love being on the back of a bike, but haven't had that luxury in a long time. I love watching my son play sports, so obviously going to his games. Love dirt track racing, going out to dinner, or even a quiet night at home watching a movie. Cooking a meal together is something I find really romantic. Oh and CAN'T forget fishing, hiking and camping.....if it's nice, I will do whatever I can to be outside!

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Committed, Marriage