LifeBeginsAtTheEndOfYourComfortZone!
Slammer
Phoenix, Arizona | Homme Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Prénom
Ed
Je me décrirais comme
First and foremost, I am in a relationship with Christ and faith is important in my life, but I’m far from being religious. I’m not perfect, or try to be, but I do my best to follow his teachings combined with real life living and common sense. I am joyful, happy, and content in my singleness, but ready to give up my singleness once I meet the one I don’t want to live without.
I am a great kisser and make every effort to explore what sends you to that special innermost level of intimacy. And no, I’m not talking about intercourse, that’s a later conversation and on down the road.
I am super active, work out at least five days a week, eat healthy, and love the outdoors. Expect to go hiking, paddle boarding, kayaking, cycling, camping (not glamping), dancing … yes, there is time to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie, but we are not doing the above list mentioned, I love exploring what Arizona has to offer outside of the Phoenix area on my motorcycle. “Let’s Ride!”
I don’t buy fast food, or eat out much (unless we’re on a date). I love to cook and would love nothing more, than for you to cook alongside me (I know, that’s one of my turn on‘s too).
I am a handyman and can fix just about everything and it’ll only cost you dinner.
I’m a man of character and substance, who brings strength, adventure, and aliveness into my every day reality. I have a strong value system which improves and simplifies my life in every way possible. Values that determine what I will, and will not allow, and how I live on a daily basis. They’re also my filtration system for determining the type of women that I will allow into my life, which is why I will choose who I want to date, instead of hoping to be chosen by happenstance. Simply put, without compatible values, the relationship won’t work in the long run. I have cultivated high levels of self-love, self-esteem, and confidence, and I don’t need the approval of anyone to validate my self-worth. I know who I am, what I stand for, and what I want, and I live these values every day without shame or compromise.
I’m not an asshole or just a nice guy, who will bend over backwards to let others walk all over me just so that I can get what I want. Although, I will do my best to make every situation a win-win, but I don’t want to win at the expensive others, because life is a team sport and cannot be one in isolation. Again simply put, my guiding principle in life is simple. “I am enough”, “I am complete”, “I am worthy”, “I give to others, because I’m already fulfilled and I seek win-win in all interactions“. “I respect myself”, “I respect others and therefore, is respected by others”. “I offer more value rather than take value”, which makes me “non-needy”, “approval seeking”, or “clingy to other people”, especially women. “I strive to give to others and not always get from others”, “yet I’m comfortable with receiving as well.
If you have read up to this point, you’re most likely interested, so now I will address the worst part of my experience on dating sites, “my age”. I can run circles around most young people, but if that’s a game changer for you, “Be you and move on, I’m not your guy“ and I wish you the best in your search for love. But before you move on, know that evidence suggests that most successful relationships, are with people who are better matched in terms of their shared interests, vitality, energy, health, and most importantly as I mentioned before, compatible values. So regardless of their age gap (+ or -), couples can have a stronger, satisfying partnership, than many same-aged couples. So there 😝
I am a great kisser and make every effort to explore what sends you to that special innermost level of intimacy. And no, I’m not talking about intercourse, that’s a later conversation and on down the road.
I am super active, work out at least five days a week, eat healthy, and love the outdoors. Expect to go hiking, paddle boarding, kayaking, cycling, camping (not glamping), dancing … yes, there is time to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie, but we are not doing the above list mentioned, I love exploring what Arizona has to offer outside of the Phoenix area on my motorcycle. “Let’s Ride!”
I don’t buy fast food, or eat out much (unless we’re on a date). I love to cook and would love nothing more, than for you to cook alongside me (I know, that’s one of my turn on‘s too).
I am a handyman and can fix just about everything and it’ll only cost you dinner.
I’m a man of character and substance, who brings strength, adventure, and aliveness into my every day reality. I have a strong value system which improves and simplifies my life in every way possible. Values that determine what I will, and will not allow, and how I live on a daily basis. They’re also my filtration system for determining the type of women that I will allow into my life, which is why I will choose who I want to date, instead of hoping to be chosen by happenstance. Simply put, without compatible values, the relationship won’t work in the long run. I have cultivated high levels of self-love, self-esteem, and confidence, and I don’t need the approval of anyone to validate my self-worth. I know who I am, what I stand for, and what I want, and I live these values every day without shame or compromise.
I’m not an asshole or just a nice guy, who will bend over backwards to let others walk all over me just so that I can get what I want. Although, I will do my best to make every situation a win-win, but I don’t want to win at the expensive others, because life is a team sport and cannot be one in isolation. Again simply put, my guiding principle in life is simple. “I am enough”, “I am complete”, “I am worthy”, “I give to others, because I’m already fulfilled and I seek win-win in all interactions“. “I respect myself”, “I respect others and therefore, is respected by others”. “I offer more value rather than take value”, which makes me “non-needy”, “approval seeking”, or “clingy to other people”, especially women. “I strive to give to others and not always get from others”, “yet I’m comfortable with receiving as well.
If you have read up to this point, you’re most likely interested, so now I will address the worst part of my experience on dating sites, “my age”. I can run circles around most young people, but if that’s a game changer for you, “Be you and move on, I’m not your guy“ and I wish you the best in your search for love. But before you move on, know that evidence suggests that most successful relationships, are with people who are better matched in terms of their shared interests, vitality, energy, health, and most importantly as I mentioned before, compatible values. So regardless of their age gap (+ or -), couples can have a stronger, satisfying partnership, than many same-aged couples. So there 😝
Signe
Scorpion
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Athlétique
Ma taille est
5' 6 (1.68 m)
Mon origine ethnique est
Hispanique/Latine